ADHD

As published in the LaPorte County Herald-Argus, Saturday, Oct. 10, 2009:

Lessons in ADD/ADHD
By, Michelle Harmon

The topic of ADD/ADHD is very personal to me. I have been on both sides of the issue. That is, I have been a teacher and have dealt with children diagnosed with ADD/ADHD, both treated and untreated. I am also the parent of a child diagnosed with ADHD. Here is what I have learned.
First, absolutely, yes there is such a disorder as ADD (Attention Deficit Disorder) and ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder). Both disorders are characterized by an inability to pay attention, fidgeting, not being able to sit still, forgetfulness, impulsivity, and so on. A lot of people, including some of my coworkers in the school setting as well some of my family members, argue that ADD/ADHD is not a real disorder. The reasoning behind this belief is that all kids “act that way”--that's just how kids are. The fact is not all kids have trouble paying attention or constantly fidget and so forth. Yes, all kids act “hyper” some of the time, but most kids can control it or respond when reprimanded. I will agree that ADD/ADHD may be somewhat over diagnosed, but it is, no doubt about it, a real disorder affecting thousands of children.
Second, there is no shame in it. Not for the child or for the parent. Having a child with ADD/ADHD doesn't make you a bad mom, nor is it something that your child is doing to get attention. Unfortunately, there exists a stigma associated with ADD/ADHD as well as other disorders. Ignore it, Mom, and do what is best for your child.
Third, there are many treatments for ADD/ADHD, and it can take some time to find the right treatment for your child. There is, of course, medication and if you choose to go this route, be sure to do your due diligence and research the different medications and their side effects before deciding to administer meds to your child. Therapy is also a common treatment for kids diagnosed with ADD/ADHD. This can work well on its own or in conjunction with medication. There are other treatments available, such as following a certain diet, behavioral therapy, and so forth. Again, do the leg work. Then, make and informed decision.
Finally, if you are unsure what the symptoms are of ADD/ADHD are, check out WebMD.com or another credible medical website or talk to your doctor. If you think that your child may be exhibiting signs of ADD/ADHD, talk to your child's doctor. I would also recommend talking to your child's teacher or day care provider; your child's teacher probably has some valuable insight as to the behavior of your child. Good luck, Mom.
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